She is a
commoner, like you and me, she wakes up every morning in the hope to be loved.
After all, who doesn't want to be loved, right?
I met her a few
years ago, but it feels as I have known her for aeons. We had this instant
connection, it was serendipity. Her charm is bound to sway you, make you feel happy,
and her aura was kind and affectionate. Amidst all, there was this deep longing
in her eyes despite her amiable grace and friendly ways. The world had failed
her in every way possible; her greatest gift now has become a bitter
disappointment.
On an otherwise
typical day, I had this burning curiosity to pursue the reason for the solitude
in her eyes that everyone surpassed seamlessly. Her deep voice still resonates
in my ears, her answer still lingers "…because no one understands
me."! I failed to understand as to why has the world turned its back to
this gentle soul? Must a beautiful person like her be not cared for? Isn't
there hope no more?
Being taken for
granted is nobody's cup of tea, yet there she was, day after day, being
disposable. She kept it together for a while now. She always uses to work very hard,
whenever she had to. Always first in taking responsibilities .Only soul reason
for doing this to keep her mates happy. It’s not that people don’t smile, or
become excited after seeing her work, but they forget her every time when the
work is done. That's what breaks her
apart. She tries to remember, but it kills her inside. Even if she tries
sharing it with someone, though that person can give her advice, or she can be
ok for that period of time, but she still breaks down every night thinking what
mistake she has done or what wrong happened.
Human nature or
human behavior always tends to change with the surroundings or inner feelings.
Mood swings, depression, anger, happiness everything is caused by the
circumstances faced by the person. We
always try to fill gaps with the information we have without thinking for a
moment whether the information we have is enough or not and that’s why many
people fail to understand others correctly.
Any number
of isolated behavior problems can represent adolescent problems and
delinquency-shoplifting, truancy, a fight in school, drug or alcohol ingestion.
Sometimes, kids can't easily explain why they act the way they do. They may be
just as confused about it as the adults, or they simply see delinquent
behaviors as appropriate ways to deal with what they experience. Parents and
loved ones may feel scared, angry, frustrated, or hopeless. They may feel
guilty and wonder where they went wrong. All these feelings are normal, but it
is important to understand that there is help available to troubled kids and
their families.
When it comes to helping a loved one with mental health
problems, providing them with quality information on their disorder is
essential. Many mental disorders go undiagnosed because the sufferer is simply
unaware their symptoms aren’t normal. They might feel the need to internalize
the problems they’re having for fear others won’t understand, or they might not
see the pattern of dysfunction their behavior is causing in their everyday
life. It’s vital for friends and family members to speak up when they see a
problem because that’s often the only way a person will realize the need for
help.
Nibedita Saikia
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